Contact

Let Us Have a Dialogue

As we will remain anonymous to any public viewers, the only contact information provided is an email address.

If you have an interest in the life threatening issues of Parental Alienation which results in child/teen victims and a targeted parent, I would be happy to hear from you and perhaps a dialogue. This is a pathology that because of Family Courts and their lack of productive guidance, must be engaged to change their solutions. I would especially be interested to hear your stories about alienating grandparents and their pathologies. I have the direct experience of an extended family pathology that is almost beyond belief. Dialogue will help us all win against this obnoxious pathology.

If you feel the need to reach me, please use the following email address:

findmysons@aol.com

Dad 72 and 5 at Country House

I was your age too. Here is your Dad when finished Boys Latin School. I was 17, Jeffrey's age.
And, to the right, is Dad, age 21, at his first home as young graduate student with big dreams

Dad's First Train

Do We Need a Manual On How to Reconnect? Or Can We Just Start by Talking and Meeting Again?

We Can Fix This Russell and Jeffrey. You have A Long Life Ahead and as my Father, my father, Your Grandfather always Said, Don't Let a Problem Persist!

Final Words - A Personal Message

Hopefully you will come to the realization that you are deeply loved and cheerished. It has always been my purpose to protect both of you and to give you the tools to engage in a very troubled world. You should also know that people, your own family, often have agendas that are not only flawed, but very destructive often for reasons of irrational hatred and anger.

Think about your grandparents, especially your grandmother. I have always known there is a sadness to her reclusive isolation, and alienation from her own family. Along with the stories of her own abusive childhood, it may explain why she needs the vicarious experience of tormenting another human being, your dad. Remember all the stories your mom told us about her own abusive childhood which quite literally lasted into her college years. No one is perfect. I am not perfect. But that doesnt give a person the right or permission to inflict cruelty on another human.

In reality, your family on both sides has troubles. Some families have more, some less. But that should never stand in the way of the love and affection that should bind the family to be mutually supportive in a bond that protects, nurtures and prepares them to stand together against any storm. This is the worst storm imaginable. But, I hold faith that, in all your emotional confusion, you Jeffrey and Russell still have a need for your father.

It is important to remember that this website will always be updated and change.
So, Please, It is always Live, cannot be Blocked and is Your Website as Much As it is Mine.

Once We Start Talking, The Website will change with us and our progress. You can reach me at any of my email addresses or phone.

And at this email:

papa@hopeindarkness.net

Your Great Family!